I know y'all heard it the same line over and over again. You can lead a horse to water but you cant make it drink. Now many people don't understand the meaning of this, even I still have a hard time understanding but I'll explain the best I can. If you ever been in a situation where someone you love or care about are dealing with PEOPLE, or THINGS, you honestly and truly believe they shouldn't; But even with the whole world showing them exactly what your seeing you cant make them leave. Don't get me wrong everyone grows and learns at their own pace, but for those of us who see beyond the future; the idiocy that come from the situation itself annoy you in ways that make you want to smack the FU*K out of them. But you Don't because you doubt they'll see it even after that. But you honestly have to realize my darlings, the HEART wants what it wants. Simple as that. Do NOT deny That you have been in their feet. Everyone and their momma telling you not to be with him/her. so you realize that But you has their friend, Just stand at the side and watch and help when you can.
Think about it carefully before you approach your friend/family about situations like these, love is blind. A lot of the times they do not realize they are in the situation the are in because they are in love with the other person, or in love with the situation (More Description in Deception Blog) You can not force yourself to see someone else's judgment, and you can not force your opinion on them. The world works in ways that are very unknown. The very same thing you may get on someone's nerves for, that you have no idea why you are, may very well be the same thing that gets on your nerves abut them in this very moment. take a second to realize your surroundings because those are the strongest forces around you. Don't forget the people who loved you before and after relationships, Because they were there first simple as that.
So start to end this blog I want to end on a note that in ways this blog is my escape to the exact same things I mention in this Blog. I'm not proud to admit it, but neither am I Ashamed of it. I understand the ramifications of being with someone that always make excuses for. you shouldn't have to excuse anyone for who and what they are doing remember that and love will always come to you blessed believe me...
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